Why be excited? (micro blog)

The results almost always take the other route than on which I’m standing. Getting the desired results is such a rarity.

This leads me to a question:

Should I be excited about anything?

There is always that element uncertainty. You never know if the thing you’re excited about will happen or happen the way you want it to.

The only other thing besides expectations is excitement. I hate expectations, they lead to stress and worry. I am starting to have same feelings towards excitement. I don’t want to be excited about anything until it actually happens.

It doesn’t feel good when your excitement is crushed which it often is.

So why be excited?

-ChoubeySahab

When do you sleep? (micro-blog)

My sleep schedule is a total mess these days. I sleep when my smartphone’s battery goes off. This is how ridiculous it is.

Although I try and delibrately ensure that I get minimum required sleep but it’s difficult.

I go to sleep late and wake up early. Who does that?

But I realise that this is because my effectiveness is increased in the late night and early morning hours. I get a lot done during this time .

The world is asleep which allows me to do deep work. Like writing micro blogs.

A lot of thinking goes into producing atleast 1 micro blog per day and you can’t achieve this in a noisy world.

For me, the afternoon is the time to sleep.

Isn’t that amazing?

That’s the liberty you get when you work for yourself. The ability to choose your working hours.

-ChoubeySahab

My pain doesn’t hurt me as much as yours (micro blog)

I think I have lived enough to deal with my pains, my problems. I can handle all of my worries and insecurities.

But I can’t see my loved ones in pain. Maybe I’ll need to live for another 1000 years to handle my loved ones’ pain.

I don’t get hurt when I face a setback but it kills me when I see my loved one crying.

Although I myself feel crying is not bad but I can’t just see my people in pain.

This leads to this question:

Am I more of someone else than my ownself?

The things I go through don’t affect me as much as what my people go through.

I actually don’t work for myself. I work to make my parents proud. I work to make my sis feel that she made projects for the right person.

I work to make my grandpa see from birdsview that he gave me the right values.

I am not me, I am them.

I am bacause they are.

I am less of me and more of them.

I love you my people.

-ChoubeySahab

The exchange of value (micro-blog)

This is the exchange which takes place in every relationship you have whether professional or personal.

If you give 10 and expect a 100 then sorry it’s not working and the relationship won’t last long. If one person is doing all it takes maintain a healthy relationship while the other is taking it for granted then it won’t last long.

I personally go out of my way to ensure an existing relation remains forever, it may be a professional relation or personal. This really helps me a lot. People help me without a pay cuz they believe in the person I’m .

The golden rule for any relationship has to be “give more than the other person expects”. I practice this on a day to day basis and if I don’t see a just reciprocation of my effort into it then I seriously consider taking it any further.

I can only be related to people who deserve and value my 200%.

-ChoubeySahab

Kids are so divine (micro blog)

At the time of writing this I’m listening to music with my 4 yr old brother and how amazing does it feel to be close to such pure souls.

Why am I not so genuine to people. Like he just told me that I listen to shit music, probably he has a better taste.

Why do I think a thousand times before opening my mouth. This man sitting just next to me doesn’t give a fuck.

He is almost always more enthusiastic than me. Ask him to jump a 1000 times for no reason and he’ll be all in.

Oh and he doesn’t know any logic. This helps him live life to the fullest.

I want to be like him. Illogical and enthusiastic for no reason.

I’m scared for him. I hope he doesn’t grow up to be a person like me.

-ChoubeySahab

I’m addicted but I don’t mind (micro-blog)

Yes, I’m addicted and I’m not ashamed of it. I’m addicted to the internet.

What’s wrong in being addicted to something that comprises the world in itself. It can give you what you want in seconds.

I use my smartphone so many times a day. I can safely call it an addiction. But is this addiction bad?

In my view, it’s not. I get to learn so much from it. It connects me to people whom I could only dream to talk.

Internet is such an enabler. If you have enough money to buy an internet pack then please don’t call yourself deprived. But yes you need to be wise enough to use it wisely.

It’s very important to see what you are addicted to and why.

If you can figure this out then go be addicted.

Addictions aren’t always bad.

-ChoubeySahab

Water is so under-appreciated (micro-blog)

When was the last time you had water? Recently right and when was the last time you appreciated water? Ah I don’t remember

We don’t appreciate water enough as it’s available to us whenever we require it. We feel thirsty-we drink water,simple.

There are people in life who are like water, they are very much available when we require them and so we don’t value them enough.

And just like we can’t live without water, we won’t be able to live without these people.

So go appreciate your water right now (both literal and metamorphical water)

-ChoubeySahab

If I were you (micro-blog)

I would have thought of the person I’m to be an overly confident person who doesn’t know what he’s doing. A person who’s living in future and not in present.

I would think that this person has a very high opinion of himself . A person who just goes on complaining.

I would hate this person for over committing and under delivering.

But there are things that I would love about this person. He’s crazy, confident and a good looking person (imao).

But overall I believe that this person is playing a binary game either he’ll end up being no.1 or 0.

-ChoubeySahab

What’s the need for marriage? (micro-blog)

Why do 2 people need to marry in order to stay together. Is it like doing a legal paperwork to tell the other person that this is the only relationship one is in.

Or is it done just to ensure that 2 people stay together for a long period of time unless the relationship goes through something extremely extremely adverse.

I mean, trust is what any relationship stands on. So why do we need marriage, isn’t trust enough?

Or do we marry to tell the rest of the world that they’re free to invite the couple for a dinner.

Or just to make the moment big and memorable.

I’m not saying people shouldn’t marry. I just don’t understand the real logic behind marriage.

Do you know the clear cut logic behind marriage?

If yes, do tell me

-ChoubeySahab

Motivated by the end result or the process? (micro-blog)

To do anything you need to be motivated enough to pursue it. There are 2 ways of being motivated-

1. By the end result

2. By the process

Motivation by the end result is like in school – you don’t like rote-learning but you’re motivated by the end result ie good academic score, so you study hard. It’s the same for college. Ask yourself would you go to college if college didn’t offer you a degree. Most of you would say no. But everyone still goes to college to get the end result-a degree.

Motivation by the process is something altogether different. In this you love doing everything unlike motivation by end result. Like a singer likes to sing. So he can do any amount of hardwork to sound good on stage without feeling tired. In this case the singer is motivated by the process. He can go on practising his art for hours and none of it would feel like hardwork as this is his passion.

In the first case, you don’t like the process but the end result. While in the second case you like both-the process and the end result.

What do you like to be motivated by-

The end result or the process?

-ChoubeySahab